Introducing Gottman’s Four Horsemen of Relationships

No, this isn’t a religious sermon, but it is an important message for anyone in a committed relationship. In previous blogs, we have delved into several factors that make marriages fail, succeed, and flourish. Building off that work, it is important to examine some of the other major challenges that face married couples. While this…

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Valentine’s Day and Kindness

As many couples celebrate Valentine’s Day with extravagant dinners, elaborate bouquets, and tasty chocolates, it’s time to consider what can truly make those romantic moments last. In our previous blog, we discussed the factors that make marriages fail and reviewed some research on how to avoid those mishaps. It is now important to turn to…

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Why Marriages Fail

 Why do some marriages last and others fall apart? This is a question that troubles countless people who may be worried about their parents divorcing, their spouse leaving them, or that an upcoming marriage won’t last. While there are no easy answers, Dr. John Gottman’s research can help shed light on this critical question.…

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The Power of Emotional Intelligence

We’ve all met that absolutely brilliant friend who still cannot read emotion any better than we can. This is a powerful example of the notion of emotional intelligence, which is often quite different from more traditional conceptions of intelligence. Instead, emotional intelligence seeks to capture one’s intuitive grasp of other people’s emotional states and their…

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